I read an excellent chapter from the book Biblical Womanhood in the Home titled "Pruned to Bloom," by P. Bunny Wilson. The chapter as well as the rest of the book can be read for free on the website http://www.cbmw.org/. The link to this specific chapter is
Here is an excerpt from the chapter:
"Since you have given your heart to Jesus,
are you sweeter? Do you make a sincere
attempt to do what is right? Hopefully the
answer to these questions is yes. However,
even with all your efforts and growth, have
you arrived? Are you where He wants you
to be? The answer to that question is no.
The fact that you have not reached perfection
means you will be pruned—regularly. Like
means you will be pruned—regularly. Like
that old grape branch, we need to come to
the place where we willingly surrender
ourselves to be pruned, as uncomfortable as
that may be. As the old grape branch would
say to the young grape branch, 'Remember,
you’re just being pruned to bloom!'"